The key to success really lies in self-love.

The most important thing is your relationship with yourself. How successful or unsuccessful you will be with every relationship in life, whether you will be a successful person or a failed person in life, depends entirely on how you see yourself, how you value yourself, how important you think you are. A person who cannot value himself/herself , thinks less of himself/herself, cannot maintain own relationship with ownself, and constantly blames ownself, that person does not value ownself.

In other words, a person who is not happy with ownself can never be successful. People always hope that someone else will say good things about him/her, that someone else will praise him/her. But do you ever think about when you yourself were impressed by yourself, looked at yourself in the mirror and thanked yourself? When did you do something that you like? If you think about it, you might see that you do everything from drinking tea to doing everything at home and outside with someone else.

When you go out to chat, you drink tea or coffee. But if you want to drink tea or coffee alone at home, maybe you want someone to make it for you or you think you can call a friend and make it for you. Again, you drink tea or coffee while talking on the phone to someone; but alone at home, not alone with yourself. Maybe some people do it, those who have no choice, maybe they are alone, so they make tea or coffee alone, get upset, blame their loneliness, their fate, and drink tea or coffee; not enjoying their own company.

Family, society, school, college, none of them teaches a person about his/her relationship with himself/herself. A person who loves ownself is considered selfish. People forget that there is a difference between self-centeredness and self-love.

In today's era, when we have to face various pressures and adversities in life, the importance of self-love or self-love has increased. Even if we want, it is not possible to find another like-minded child for my child. As a result, children grow up with loneliness. This loneliness turns into depression, unless the child is taught to develop own relationship with ownself.

The structure of our mind and feelings plays an important role, where the influence of the subconscious mind helps us reach the ultimate point of confidence and self-esteem. The subconscious mind is the part of the mind that acts as a repository of our experiences, memories and emotions. It is the center of our feelings, which affects our behavior without us consciously realizing it. The subconscious mind constantly stores information and experiences from our daily events, accidents, successes, failures in the medial temporal lobe and other areas of the brain, which is an important part of our decision-making process in various situations in life.

For example, if a person has the experience of hearing more criticism than usual as a child, his subconscious mind retains that experience. After growing up or when doing something new, it reminds him/her that you can't, you can't do it. Unknowingly, he/she loses. This makes them doubt their ability or confidence. But if a person talks to ownself, if he/she loves ownself, he/she will try to do the task again and again without giving up. The human mind is a deep and mysterious field; Where relationships are created in a web of thoughts, feelings, and habits.

Ask yourself if you can love yourself. If not, why can't you? What are your good sides? Is there anyone who praises you? If not, what bad sides do they talk about about you? Suppose someone says that you are lazy, have you really become lazy? Do you lie down all day and night? If not, then you need to understand that you are not lazy. If you lie down all day and it is proven that you are lazy, then first see a doctor to see if you have any physical illness.

If not, then ask yourself, why do you lie down all day? To prove yourself lazy, or to prove the person who is telling you that you are lazy, right? What can you do from your daily routine that is a little different? What can you do for yourself, that you will feel today, I can love myself. If not, I can try a little. Remember, the key to success is self-love. Love yourself.