Sex is an overrated thing. A hundred times more beautiful is finding a friend, a partner, a soulmate. Since sex is a taboo in our society, we learn to think of sex as rosagolla, thinking that sex is everything in life. Literally, we organize a wedding to find a legal partner to have sex with. If we look at it from a distance, doesn't the whole thing seem ridiculous?
Of course, humans are born to have sex, to reproduce. But one day we realize that we don't know the person closest to us! But why?
Because sex is not everything in life!
For an artist, painting a picture that pleases the soul, for a writer, writing a wonderful novel - is much more important than sex. Orgasm is not a matter of the genitals, all orgasms are brain-generated.
As a result, a great work of art can give an artist more satisfaction than sex.
In fact, one of the most powerful artists of the last century is Salvador Dali, an interesting fact to know about him is that he was afraid of having sex, it is said that he was literally a virgin man and for this reason he used to encourage his wife Gala to have sex with other men!
The song 'Milon Hobe Kot Din' that Lalon sang is not a 'meeting' of sex. It is a meeting of souls with souls. Because this meeting did not happen, Buddha, despite having sex, being the father of a child, leaving everything in the empire and family, went and sat under a pakur tree by the Niranjana River in meditation. He asked himself - what is happiness? What is nirvana?
As Rabindranath wanted to ask his friend - how much is love?
The crying in the human heart is not for sex. Most people cry so much because they do not get the life they want to live. Sex is just an accessory, but the most beautiful part of the body is the brain. A person who has understood his own brain will smile when he hears about sex.
Because - people do not live for sex, they live to clearly understand the meaning of living.
Do you think that someone who has not experienced the joy of living, even while living, has ever experienced the joy of sex?
Written by - Jannatun Naeem Preeti
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