Do you know, you are forcing your child to do BDSM yourself?

 

Do you know, you are forcing your child to do BDSM yourself? From whom do we learn love? We learn love from our family, neighbors and educational institutions. If you love your child as a child, along with attacking and hurting him,

His brain will think that "love is actually a pain"! In a relationship where there is no pain, they will consider it a danger and threat because our brain considers the familiar reality safe and secure for him. A person who has grown up suffering since birth, suffering is the most familiar and familiar to him and therefore cruel people will seem close and close to him. Our brain is designed in such a way that the familiar reality is painful but reliable.

In the future, he will have relationships with people through which such pain can be recreated. He will want to get the same pain again and again. He will choose people who will give him sexual pleasure through scolding, mocking, blocking, insulting, rejecting, torturing, ruling and exploiting. He will show attraction to serial killers, terrorists and psychopaths.

BDSM stands for “Bondage and Discipline, Dominance and Submission, Sadism and Masochism”. We get these behaviors from our family, seniors and teachers in childhood. We cannot heal ourselves from this trauma throughout our lives, that is why we want someone who will tie us up (Bondage), discipline us (Discipline), rule us (Dominance), exploit us (Dominance), want to hurt others (Sadism) and want to hurt themselves (Masochism). Even after getting involved in a romantic relationship, they will constantly satirize and sarcasticize their boyfriend. They will hyper-focus and over-analyze minor issues. They will be rejected again and again and come back again. It is like an eternal loop.

In the first 4 years of life, 1500 trillion neural connections are formed in a child’s brain. If you force a child to always obey, exploit, humiliate and discipline, BDSM is encoded in them unconsciously. There are many other factors behind BDSM, such as novelty seeking, adventure or people's addiction to dominance and submission, but childhood trauma can trigger extreme BDSM mentality.

(However, BDSM practice is not negative, it relieves stress and pain, releases endorphins, dopamine and oxytocin from the brain, which are beneficial for us)

Lihan Prime