He made me feel the ugliest-

 

After a year or two of marriage, I had an ugly fight with my fiancé while riding a bike.

At that time, I had just started gaining weight. While riding the bike, the fiancé jokingly said,

You have become so heavy, the bike tilted to one side!

Hearing this, my trauma was immediately triggered.

We had such a bad fight that the fiancé still remembers it. I don't even remember how long ago that trauma started.

Since childhood, I have faced almost all of it, in every way possible, to break a girl's confidence about her physical appearance.

Since childhood, I have had a serious problem with hormonal acne. Once you have good skin, there is no way to see it again!

When we were in love, during a pimple breakout, I heard from my ex,

When you and such-and-such a girl stood side by side, I saw her skin, absolutely fresh, clean, beautiful. And looking at your face, you know, my body shivered; so many scars!

I felt the chill within my bones. My throat caught. Tears welled up in my eyes.

In fact, at one point I also heard, how tall is your cousin! How beautiful he looks. Oh, your height is so short!

Hearing this comparison with my cousins, I felt like someone was constantly poking me in the chest.

I was in the drama team in my first year at university. There, an older brother said with a laugh, "You have great teeth!"

There was a time when I would cringe when I saw a very beautiful, shiny girl. I wanted to run away from that place. I felt like I was the ugliest one in this place!

A girl can be broken in many ways. The most heinous way is to make her feel ugly. Trust me, it breaks you in piece by piece.

Today, when Sakiya Haque was saying on live, he made me feel the ugliest- I felt unbearable in my anger and pain.

When such a qualified, smart, over-achiever girl begs and begs to save her family, husband, and relationship - what should I do? Should I be tall? Should I be fair? Should I be beautiful?

How much ugly can a confident, upfront, smart girl say these things when she feels so ugly!

To ​​be honest, you cannot stop any boy in the world with your looks, looks, and beauty unless he loves you and wants you from the bottom of his heart.

Even a beautiful woman like Princess Diana could not stop Prince Charles; Angelina Jolie also left Brad Pitt.

Abhishek cheated on her with someone else, leaving Aishwarya Rai at home.

Today, my groom loves me and he likes the scars on my face. He looks at me with fascinated eyes and says, "You are beautiful!"

God forbid, if he ever stops loving me, he won't like me even if I have clear skin.

That's why, that's why I say it, girls - please look at yourselves. Keep your feet on the ground. The person you're willing to give up everything for today may not think twice about dumping you one day.

At least if someone does something like that to you, you can hold them by the neck and hand them over to the police. If you're wronged, you can protest with a strong heart.

Anima Chowdhury