The girl is a foreign friend of a foreign friend of ours. We met after playing at a foreign club in Dhaka and were chatting. She came and sat at our table. After chatting for a while, she said that she was not feeling well. She got up and left. After the girl left, my friend looked at me meaningfully and smiled softly and said, "Do you understand something? I have seen the girl before. This time, she seemed more mature and physically fit. I guessed it, I said, "Is there any good news?" It worked, my friend smiled from ear to ear and said, "You are smart, and she is going to be a mother." In my mind, I fell from the sky. The girl is quite beautiful. Although European, she looks a lot like an Indian goddess. I knew her because she is alone and does not have any boyfriends. I have not seen her being close to any boys in Bangladesh either. She has not been to her own country in the meantime. Suppressing my surprise, I asked her how it happened? My friend said, "Didn't she go to India for two weeks during last Eid?" There she found the father of her child. I said good news, when is the party? The girlfriend said, "Oh, there won't be a party, they have broken up. She gave the boy the wrong number and address. She only wanted the child from a man who looked like a prince."
I will take only the child from a man who looked like a prince, nothing else, and no other bonds, rules, being close to men, fulfilling their needs, cooperating with them, living with them, thinking about love and romance with them are unbearable - girls with this mentality were not seen very publicly before, but now we see them a lot. From female stars in the media world to successful female professionals, even girls who don't earn anything in the middle-class society, there are many with this mentality. Presenting themselves in an attractive and sexually attractive way, not getting emotionally attached to love and romance, and once wanting a child with a man like a prince but leaving the man, this is roughly the desire of women with this mentality.
Having the power to seduce men, disliking the rules and responsibilities of society and marriage but wanting children - this is the psychological archetype of Lilith, the woman who is believed to have been first created as Adam's companion in the lost Abrahamic myths. When she was made from Adam's rib and wanted to be his wife, she refused Adam's command to submit. Some analysts also claim that she was expelled from paradise when she disobeyed Adam's command to submit. Eve was then created as Adam's companion. But later Lilith re-entered paradise as a serpent and tempted Eve and Adam to eat the fruit of the tree of knowledge. Eating this fruit would arouse sexual desire between them, they would have sexual intercourse and have a child. It was her life's desire to steal that child.
The image on the right of the collage is from The Burney Relief, a Mesopotamian terracotta tablet from the Old Babylonian period, circa 19th-18th century BC, or about 4,000 years ago. This relief depicts a winged nude woman with bird-like feet, accompanied by two owls. At that time, wind was considered evil and owls were considered unlucky. Owls roamed at night, created bad air, and stole the young of animals. This was the story of the Sumerian demon Lilitu.
In psychology, there are several personality disorders in which people feel extremely uncomfortable living with other people, forming relationships, and taking on adult responsibilities. They cannot accept social or family rules, keeping conditions, maintaining ideals, or making concessions to protect the rights of others. In a word, they dislike adults because adults desire a reciprocal relationship. But they like children out of a deep reproductive instinct, and the minds of two children can be controlled. Relationships with children are not a reciprocal relationship. They love only when they are kept happy with affection and food.
Sirajul Hossain
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