Harem. The dictionary definition of which is as follows: "a sacred inviolable place" which means "a sacred forbidden place". Once upon a time, the elite, that is, the kings and queens, had harems. Even if they had one or more wives and children, having fun with the women in the harem was an accepted open secret. Now that king and queen are no longer in power, but the elite are there, so there are harems too. Under different names. In different guises. The current kings and queens are the heads of corporate houses. Chairman, MD, CEO, COO, Director, GM, Editor. Within their boundaries, they are the harems of Delhi of various sizes and businesses, small and large.
Just as the kings and queens had various hobbies, some hunted tigers and lions, some built palaces, some sang Tansen. Again, those among them who liked new women of various sizes and colors, they built harems to enjoy the company of women. Although our corporate leaders are far behind the ancient kings in all other hobbies, they are not behind in creating harems. There is no shortage of enthusiasm among women workers to join these harems.
A few days ago, a female worker of a media house highlighted such a harem character through the Me-2 hashtag. About whom I know a little. I was once a director in the same group. Although such hashtags are insignificant in this country, harems are not insignificant and harems are not limited to media houses alone. They have spread everywhere, from drug smuggling organizations to public service organizations. Wherever there is a king, there is a harem.
However, not all kinds of women were used in the harems of the past. Baiji, dancers, women captured from enemy states, women who were unwilling to engage in domestic life, women who were enthusiastic about music, music, and fun found a place in the harem based on their qualifications. There was a clear division in society, who would stay in the harem and who would stay at home. Our corporate harems were also like this until recently. Those who were lustful for women would satisfy their needs with professional women after finishing their work. Or they would go abroad for vacation with them.
Those who did not want such relationships or those who were domestic workers worked in the office with their own personal independence. But the great desire to impress everyone in the office by portraying themselves as modern women is breaking down these days. Now, a woman who has just graduated from university, full of professional ambitions, joins a five-star clean office with the elegance of a genuine forest woman and man, and is surprised that she was so skilled that she did not know it before. She is so happy that she quickly leaves all the old male and female colleagues in the office behind and becomes the boss's right-hand man.
Her mother is the happiest with her rapid rocket career leap, proving all the laws of gravity false. She encourages her even more, go ahead, son, you are more successful than my son. Mothers think, is my daughter a pearl? Just then, the boss's sexual appeal to such successful people comes to her. The girl falls into both crises. She never imagined how hot the star's attraction that has lifted her so quickly from the gravity that binds all people is.
Many people wonder how this can happen in a place where hundreds of people, 95 percent of whom pray regularly and fast, where decent men and women work from morning to evening in perfectly legal and high-quality professional jobs? Is everyone involved in this conspiracy to enjoy the new girl? If not, are they unaware of this process? If they do know, how can they accept it?
It is said about Steve Jobs, CEO of Apple Inc. or Apple Computer Company, that Jobs could create a reality distortion field. In the words of another Apple employee, innovative computer engineer Andy Hertzfeld, “Steve Jobs could completely change his own and others' sense of reality by applying his charm, charisma, authority, pretense, agility and constant effort.”"
What can happen to the reality of the world's most talented and successful designers, engineers, and inventors who can change the space-time dimension of reality, the reality of the life, love, and sexuality of beautiful women who have just graduated and are entering a new professional life? The same "reality distortion field" of life, love, and sexuality prevails in the top management blocks of all those offices.
The most beautiful girl in one such office came to me one day and spoke to me a lot with tears in her eyes. Then she asked, "Say, brother, you know I have a small child, even though I am not having a good time with my husband, should I still have sex with someone?" I understood that the girl was completely confused. In her office, she is immersed in such a reality distortion field that her own sense of reality is disappearing. I explained a lot to her. But the problem is that for those like me who live in reality, who are oscillating between these dreams and reality, we are like dull, wooden two-dimensional shadow people.
They get a taste of life in magical reality. That is why they are the target of all devils.
This reality distortion field is not created only for sexual benefits. When it is applied to employees, they work more with less benefits. Many even start following the orders of the boss, even though they are proletarians themselves. When it is applied to customers, the business flourishes, the profit is more than the investment, the customer thinks that How lucky. If this is applied to government officials, ministers, secretaries, and officials do whatever they want with joy. If this is applied to banks, they can get as much loan as they want. Are there so many defaulters?
Creating this reality distortion field is a psychopathic trait or symptom. A psychopath's addiction is power. Sex is not love or mere physical pleasure for him, if that were the case, he would be happy with a sexual partner. His addiction is to defeat people with mental power and bring the whole person under his control and enjoy his existence for himself. The most suitable weapon for this purpose is creating a reality distortion field. The most successful way to control a person is to arouse doubts in his mind about his sense of reality. Then he becomes the most vulnerable. This is also called gaslighting. "Gaslighting means that a person, through his projected instructions, influences another person's sense of reality to his own sense of judgment and "The trap of doubt and distrust is to be thrown into the trap of doubt and distrust" (Dorpat, T. L. (1994). On the double whammy and gaslighting, Psychoanalysis & Psychotherapy, 11(1), 91-96).
The funny thing is that the person who is the victim of this gaslighting, unless he has infinite mental strength, endurance and determination, he cannot save himself from this trap, but rather strengthens the psychopath by helping and supporting him and giving him warmth and love to save himself from his own doubt and distrust. Psychopaths do not target everyone as victims. They target those who have ambivalent attachment to their mothers since childhood. Ambivalent attachment is when mothers scold children at the same time and show loving or dependent behavior.
These children miss their mothers immensely when they are away, and find them unbearable when they are near. When these children grow up, they easily become psychopathic Trapped. Because she has a complete lack of confidence in human relationships, lacks clear thinking and the mental strength and energy to get out of a bad situation in time. Stockholm syndrome is seen in girls with this mentality, where she feels attracted to the person who kidnapped and tortured her, until the ultimate disaster occurs.
Various studies say that one in five corporate CEOs is a psychopath. Psychopathic men are more successful in business. This has increased so much that it is believed that one of the reasons for the global economic disaster of 2007-2008 is the psychopathic reality distortion of CEOs.
So what to do? How can men and women who are running for success, especially mentally fragile women, save themselves from these corporate psychopaths? For this, they need to know about them. They need to prepare their minds through education and practice so that they can recognize psychopaths. Then the harder task is not to get caught in the trap or, if caught, to take yourself to a safe distance in time before the final damage is done.
These psychopathic hunting incidents occur in such a smooth, smooth and sweet emotional seduction and mutual excitement and excitement that the victim considers herself lucky, while other women envy her success. It is a mutual process, so family, colleagues, society, state, police, etc., can help after the final damage has been done, but they can never help in the beginning because the victim himself is very enthusiastic. Therefore, early education and keeping eyes and ears open is the only way.
Sirajul Hossein
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