If I tell you "Never think about tigers", you won't be able to do that, as soon as you hear me, a tiger doesn't appear on your mind screen. This is the word memory association in our brain. Now, if someone is told not to think about tigers while walking through the forest at night, that instruction is of no use, but the opposite happens. The image of a tiger comes to mind. Rather, what needs to be done is to bring something else to mind by saying something else.
In this way, those who are misogynists, critics of women's clothing, always think about naked women and enjoying them. Those who are anti-India, always have fear of India in their minds. A healthy, normal person doesn't even think about what a stranger on the street or a female colleague in the office is wearing because he doesn't see her from a sexual perspective, so the thought of clothing doesn't come to his mind. Similarly, for a healthy and normal person in Bangladesh, India is just a neighboring country with which there is a huge border and social, cultural and business relations. There, the relationship is of daily life, here the question of love or hate is irrelevant.
Similarly, those who hate, neglect and insult independence and Sheikh Mujib always have them clearly in their minds. The reason why independence and Sheikh Mujib are always in their minds is because they know that they or their predecessors have committed crimes against the ideals of independence and Sheikh Mujib. If a person is guilty of murdering a person, then he can never forget that person. Either he has to stay drunk by drinking alcohol, or he has to keep his mind busy by being religious and always reciting prayers or chanting Tasbi. Or he tries to reduce his guilt by character assassination of that person, although the result is worse.
Psychoanalyst Carl Gustav Jung said - What you want to hide, comes out. So what comes out shows what is hidden inside. However, some very clever people can hide it. Elon Musk recently said a great thing in an interview with psychologist Jordan Peterson. Since he is one of the most successful CEOs in the world today, people who have to get to know each other professionally. Elon Musk said that many times you will make a mistake in recognizing people because they will put on a beautiful mask to deceive you and behave in a way that you will think that they are not like them. Musk said that for this reason, you should pay more attention not only to the person, but also to who their friends and who their enemies are. Because just as they wear masks to deceive you, their friends do not wear them because you are not their target. That is why they are defenseless without masks. You have to look carefully at their appearance to see what they are like. Along with this, Musk also said that you should also pay attention to who their enemies are. Honest and good people have enemies and bad people are their enemies.
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